Things Lawyers Should Tell You But Don’t
Often times we hear horror stories of legal proceedings that have gone poorly. Attorneys who didn’t show up, or were not prepared or not invested. But there are quite a few things good lawyers wish they could say to their clients, and usually don’t.
Money, Money, Money
You would not expect to put gas in your car and not pay for it. You also would not expect to receive your utilities at your home without paying for them. Likewise, why would you expect legal representation without paying for it? If you are not paying your attorney, and they are not court-appointed, you should assume you will not have their attention often or their best performance in court on your behalf. While some attorneys will still defend you and represent you, their lack of sympathy towards you will show in court and most likely will not result in the verdict you are hoping for. “Keeping money out of our legal issue is the smartest way to get good results from someone driven to help you.”
They deserve the truth
You must remember that your attorney is not a witness on your behalf. Instead, they are an advocate for you. Being able to prove your case is their job, having the truth on their side is always an advantage. Being upfront and honest with your lawyer in your initial meeting or consultation will create a successful relationship and help you towards your goal.
Dress appropriately
When your lawyer tells you to show up to court, whether virtually or in person, dress up. Dress for success is not just a corny saying, it is a way to help put your best foot forward in front of a judge or jury. If those rendering judgement are distracted by your appearance they will likely not listen to your story. “Credibility is one of the most important things in this world.” And the courtroom is no different.
Things take time
Being patient is one of the hardest things in life. And legal proceedings are no different. The legal process takes time. Your lawyers are at the mercy of the courts, just like you are. Expecting an immediate answer on your case will only leave you feeling disgruntled. Realizing you are not your lawyers only client is also important. They owe each of their clients the same amount of time and respect as they owe you. Be patient.
Put everything in writing
An attorney can take your word and try and create a successful case on your behalf. But without evidence, without proof in writing, it will be very hard to win. Create contracts. Take notes. Have others write out their testimonies. Put in the time and effort to be successful so that your lawyer can carry you to the finish line.
Don’t put it all in a voicemail
If you are making your first contact with an attorney, do not leave your entire life’s story on their voicemail. Keep it short and sweet. Save the details for your consultation. Be the very best version of yourself from the very first moment of contact with your lawyer. “Keep your communication very simple and to the point.”
Don’t bring your whole family to the consultation
If you have scheduled a consultation with an attorney, you need to be the only person who shows up. Bringing others with you will only create confusion, distraction and a lack of productivity. Having your attorney develop a relationship with you is the most important thing, not your entire family.
While there are numerous other things lawyers will tell you, these are just a few tips to keep in mind before your approach a legal relationship with an attorney. Put your best foot forward and let justice be on your side.