Should You File for a Domestic Violence Protection Order (DVPO)?

First, and foremost, if you are being hurt, threatened or stalked, please call The National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE. While the decision to file a domestic violence protection order can be stressful, there are times where it can very well be a matter of life or death.

What is domestic violence?

Domestic violence happens when someone does one of these things: hits, assaults (including sexual assault), or harms you physically in any way, causes you to fear immediate physical harm or assault or stalks you. Most often, unfortunately, the person causing the harm is a family member or former partner.

What is a DVPO?

It is a civil court order (something you request) and is issued by a judge. The DVPO is meant to protect you from another person. You can file this type of order if you are the victim of domestic violence. Protection Orders are very effective for many people. But they are not a good option for everyone.

Are you prepared to file a DVPO?

Filing for a DVPO beings a court process that requires hearings, gathering and submitting evidence and a great deal of time. Hiring a family law attorney versed in these situations is imperative to your success and protection. There are a few items to consider in making the decision to file a DVPO: are there other matters that need your immediate attention first, do you know where the other party is to serve them, are you prepared to engage with your batterer in court, are you ready to discuss personal matters publicly.

Are there other options?

Yes, there are other options. You can file a family law case instead of a DVPO. You can get Temporary Orders or a Restraining Order. If you are trying to control who has custody of a child, a home or vehicle a temporary order, or immediate restraining order would fulfill your needs. Keep in mind, immediate restraining orders are for emergencies only.

If you find yourself being abused, reach out for help immediately.